19 Common Social Etiquette Rules That People Say Just Don’t Make Sense Anymore
1. Asking for permission to marry
Many people think it’s outdated to ask a partner’s parents for permission to marry. It’s seen as more respectful to discuss it directly with your partner.
2. Taking off your hat indoors
The old rule of removing hats indoors seems unnecessary for many today. It’s more about personal comfort and style now.
3. Standing when someone enters the room
Standing up when someone enters used to be a sign of respect, but now it can feel forced and awkward.
4. Using formal titles
Using “Mr.” or “Mrs.” feels stiff in casual settings. First names are often preferred for a more relaxed interaction.
5. Writing thank-you notes
Handwritten thank-you notes are less common. A quick text or email is usually enough to show appreciation.
6. Holding the door open
While holding doors open is polite, some feel it’s unnecessary for everyone, especially if it creates an awkward rush.
7. Waiting to eat until everyone is served
Waiting for everyone to be served before eating can be impractical, especially in large gatherings. Many prefer to start while the food is hot.
8. Dressing formally for events
Dressing up for events like weddings or funerals is less rigid. People are choosing comfort and personal style over strict dress codes.
9. Avoiding politics and religion
Steering clear of politics and religion in conversations used to be a rule, but now many enjoy healthy debates on these topics.
10. Responding to RSVPs
RSVPs are often ignored, with people showing up unannounced or not at all. It’s becoming more common to follow up with a text instead.
11. Covering your mouth when yawning
Covering your mouth when yawning is still polite, but some feel it’s not a big deal if you forget.
12. Giving up your seat
Giving up your seat for elders or pregnant women is still courteous, but some think it shouldn’t be expected automatically.
13. Not interrupting
While interrupting is generally considered rude, in lively discussions, it’s sometimes seen as a sign of engagement and interest.
14. Addressing elders with respect
Respecting elders is important, but many believe mutual respect should be the norm regardless of age.
15. Leaving a tip
Tipping is customary in many places, but some argue that fair wages should replace the need for tips.
16. Shaking hands
Shaking hands has lost its appeal, especially post-pandemic. Fist bumps or waves are becoming more popular.
17. Sending holiday cards
Sending holiday cards is less common. Digital greetings are more convenient and eco-friendly.
18. Sitting properly
Sitting up straight is considered good manners, but comfort often takes priority over posture.
19. Not talking with your mouth full
Talking with your mouth full is still frowned upon, but some find it more acceptable in casual settings.
